It's been really, really hard for my fiancee, and I don't think he would be my fiancee if I was this busy when we had met. All that being said, no one can tell you what is right for you except Heavenly Father. I've told people money doesn't buy love. Nothing less will do. Last year i met a wonderful neurosurgeon and within 6 months he told me he was in love with me. Plan on her family trying to torpedo your relationship if you don't convert. He also doesn't let me sleep in and stay there when he leaves for work. You could even pass it off as you investigating the church and you stumnled accross these essays on lds. There's definitely strength in kindred spirits. At best they just try to include you in the community, and at worst you are constantly told that you'll be welcome "when you're ready.
Yes, because that is generally what is best. She converts to your religion. Her beliefs are innocous but ultimately a death sentence for this relationship. When he comes home he's so exhausted and just wants to veg out and this leaves me alone again. I do not text or call him frequently-- I'll send him the occasional message, but generally I let him initiate contact and dictate the pace. There are a million fish in the sea and it makes no sense to choose one with whom you are not religiously compatible. The Holy Ghost will testify that it is true. So there's THAT to look forward to. We are at odds about this constantly. Good thing is you can have multiple wives in heaven if you become exalted.
I wouldn't wish this shit on my enemy. And don't fall for all their talk of being open and welcoming. Then an explanation of the nature of your soul and where it came from and where it's going. He also has sacrificed a more easy lifestyle. As these are probably the two most important things to you, it will most likely, be a very difficult decisionвfollow your heart and the spirit. You'll definitely need antidepressants. I am sure you can all guess how this ends As his moving date was approaching, he was spending more and more time with his friends and less and less time with me. I have been known to share though because it gets on my nerves when my friends complain to me about how much money we are making Recently by some pure act of coincidence my hubby ended up with a day off on Labor day. I can totally understand. It also seems like he's into it based on how he acts around me and the things he says.
I married for companionship but now all I do is wait for him to stop working, to come home, to call me back, to have time, which is hardly ever. The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife.
Doesn't leave many options here though but better than constantly having them push the church on you until you either give in and convert or break up. She said we couldn't watch it because the lady who produced the doc was formerly a professor at BYU but has since left the church, so she wouldn't have anything good to say. These same principles have helped build strong, successful religious communities for thousands of years.